Emotional Healing & Transformation Library

These books offer resources to support individuals in their journey towards emotional healing and transformation. They emphasize the importance of self-care for reducing stress and aiding in emotional healing, as well as the need to acknowledge, accept, and integrate painful experiences and emotions in the healing process. Each of these books brings an enormous impact to me and greatly shapes my personal healing journey, as well as my teaching and healing work. I consider it my personal mission to share this powerful knowledge because it has been so pivotal in my own personal growth as well as professional development.
Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

This book by Terry Real is a guide for women seeking to understand and improve their relationships with their partners. Real provides insight into the "intimacy gap" that exists between men and women and offers practical advice on how to bridge that gap and build more fulfilling relationships. The book includes Real's personal experiences and case studies, as well as exercises and communication tools to help couples reconnect.
Love Sense: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships

Love Sense: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships

Dr. Johnson explains that romantic love is an attachment bond, similar to the bond between mother and child, and provides practical advice for developing "love sense" - the ability to build and maintain long-lasting relationships. The book is divided into two parts, with part one covering the emotional bond of love, while part two delves into the science of emotions, the brain, and the body. Overall, Love Sense offers a fresh perspective on the nature of romantic relationships, backed by years of scientific research.
I Don't Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression

I Don't Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression

This  is a bestselling book by Terry Real that addresses the issue of male depression and aims to destigmatize it. The book is a personal and professional guide for men who suffer from depression, as well as for their loved ones. Real shares his own experiences and those of his clients, providing insight and tools for healing and self-awareness. The book has been widely praised for its hopeful and transformative message.
How Can I Get Through to You?: Closing the Intimacy Gap Between Men and Women

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

In this book Dr. Sue Johnson presents her successful program for building stronger and more secure relationships. The book emphasizes the importance of emotional responsiveness and guides readers through seven transformative conversations that help couples recognize destructive communication patterns and develop deeper levels of intimacy and connection. Hold Me Tight has been widely praised for its effectiveness as a couples therapy method and is recommended for anyone seeking to improve their romantic relationships.
The Emotionally Focused Casebook: New Directions in Treating Couples

The Emotionally Focused Casebook: New Directions in Treating Couples

By James L. Furrow, Susan M. Johnson, and Brent A. Bradley, this is a reference book for clinicians, students, professors, and supervisors who use or teach Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) in their practice or training. The book features hands-on case studies with concrete guidelines and illustrations for the adaptation and application of EFT with specific treatment populations. It is a comprehensive guide to the latest advancements and directions in treating couples using EFT.
The New Rules of Marriage

The New Rules of Marriage

In The New Rules of Marriage, Terry Real presents a powerful message that women need to hear: every woman has the power to transform her marriage, while men, given the right support, have it in them to rise to the occasion. Real, a distinguished therapist and bestselling author, introduces readers to a radically new kind of relationship, based on a new set of rules for modern relationships. The book is a must-read for anyone seeking to improve their marriage or relationship.
The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity

The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity

Esther Perel explores the complex nature of infidelity and its impact on relationships. Perel argues that infidelity is often a symptom of deeper issues within a relationship and can provide an opportunity for growth and transformation. Rather than taking a moralistic approach, Perel encourages readers to examine the emotional and psychological factors that contribute to affairs and offers insights and strategies for navigating the aftermath